Still Becoming · Week 9
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Pastor Kennedy's message · Five weekday devotionals

The Greatest
Gift of Love

God did not merely tell us He loved us. He gave us Jesus, brought us from death to life, and now makes His love visible through us.

“For this is how God loved the world: He gave his one and only Son.”
John 3:16 · NLT
ENTER THE WEEK ↓

Last week, Pastor Sammy showed us that Jesus turns the ladder of greatness upside down. Kingdom greatness receives the overlooked person, takes the towel, and puts love into practice. This week, Pastor Kennedy takes us to the source of that love. Before love could flow through us, it came to us. Before we reached for God, God reached for us. He did not merely tell us that He loved us. He gave us Jesus.

Carolyn and I have continued to witness God's lovingkindness here in Japan. While ministering among people experiencing homelessness, the Lord opened a door for us to share the good news of Jesus. By His grace, one person placed their faith in Christ. We rejoice in what God has done. The saving work is His, and all the glory belongs to Him.

The simple path is complete: read the passage, notice one truth, pray, and carry one phrase. Open Going Deeper when you want more Scripture. Open Marvel at This when you want one biblical connection. Missing a day does not put you behind.

If you are new to Becomers, you are not being asked to prove that you deserve God's love. None of us could. This week begins with open hands. If you have known John 3:16 for most of your life, ask the Holy Spirit to make the familiar wonderful again.

The movement of God's love

Pastor Kennedy's message carries us from the heart of God into a life of visible love.

01Love moved firstGod loved us before we could reach for Him.
02Love gave JesusThe greatest gift reveals the depth of the Giver.
03Love gave lifeGrace did more than improve us. Christ made us alive.
04Love flows throughThe invisible God makes His love visible through His people.

We love because He loved us first.

01

Monday

Love Took the First Step

Beloved Before Useful
Read 1 John 4:7-10 · NLT ↗
“This is real love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins.”

Pastor Kennedy began with three words that can become so familiar that we hurry past their wonder: God loves us. John slows us down. Real love did not begin with our search for God, our promises to do better, or our ability to make ourselves worthy. It began in the heart of God.

This changes the way we enter the week. We do not begin as spiritual performers trying to attract God's attention. We begin as people He has already seen and moved toward in Christ. He loved us while we were turned away. He gave before we asked. He acted before we understood what we needed.

Last week we practiced coming to Jesus with a child's open hands. That is exactly how a gift is received. Open hands do not pretend they purchased what is being given. They simply trust the giver. The gospel is not a reward for those who loved God well enough. It is the announcement that God loved us first.

Some mornings our love feels strong. Other mornings it feels thin and tired. God's love does not rise and fall with ours. Today, let His first move become your resting place.

Carry itGod's love moved toward me first.
Pray itFather, I release the need to earn what You freely give. Help me receive Your love today in the place where I feel ____________.
Practice itHold your hands open for one quiet minute and say, “You loved me first.” Nothing more is required.
Jesus-SightingNotice one undeserved kindness today. Let it remind you of the God who took the first step.
Going Deeperoptional

Trace the love that begins in God rather than in us.

  • Deuteronomy 7:6-9 — God sets His love on a people because He is faithful, not because they are impressive.
  • Romans 5:6-8 — Christ comes for us while we are still helpless and far from God.
  • Ephesians 1:3-8 — God's saving purpose begins in love and overflows in grace.

Ask the text: What did God do before we were able to offer Him anything?

Whole picture: 1 John 4

Marvel at Thisoptional

John does not merely say that God has love. He says that God is love. The cross is not Jesus persuading a reluctant Father to care about us. Father and Son act together to bring us home.

Try this: When shame tells you to hide, answer with the first movement of the gospel: “God moved toward me in Jesus.”

02

Tuesday

He Gave What Cost Everything

Known by Our Love
A grandfather treasuring a simple blank-paper gift from a child
Read John 3:14-17 · NLT ↗
“For this is how God loved the world: He gave his one and only Son.”

Love can be spoken, but love is measured by what it is willing to give. Pastor Kennedy reminded us of the small gift Mike received from his grandchild: a simple blank piece of paper offered after a week of babysitting. To anyone else it might have looked like nothing. To Mike it was precious because it carried the child's love and because it was what the child had to give.

God's gift was not small. He did not give something unimportant or easily replaced. He gave His one and only Son. Jesus is not an object passed from one hand to another. He is the beloved Son who willingly came, and the Father willingly sent Him. The gift reveals the depth of the love.

John 3:16 is not a slogan to rush past. Every phrase opens another room of wonder: God loved. God loved the world. God gave. He gave His Son. He gave so that people facing death could receive life.

Yesterday we received love with open hands. Today, stay with the cost. You do not have to manufacture an emotional response. Simply refuse to treat the gift as ordinary. Let gratitude grow slowly in the presence of Jesus.

Carry itGod did not give me a token. He gave me Jesus.
Pray itLord Jesus, keep the gospel from becoming ordinary to me. Today I thank You for giving Yourself for ____________.
Practice itRead John 3:16 aloud, slowly enough to pause after the words “He gave.” Let the pause become your thank-you.
Jesus-SightingWhere did someone give something that carried more love than its price could measure?
Going Deeperoptional

Let Scripture show the shared love of the Father and the Son in our salvation.

  • Romans 8:31-39 — The God who gave His Son will never loosen His loving hold on us.
  • Galatians 2:20 — Paul speaks personally of the Son of God who loved him and gave Himself for him.
  • John 10:14-18 — Jesus lays down His life willingly as the Good Shepherd.

Ask the text: What does the gift of Jesus reveal about the Giver?

Whole picture: John 3:1-21

Marvel at Thisoptional

In John 3:16, the word world does not describe a world already turned toward God. It is the world Jesus has just described as needing rescue. God's love moves toward need, resistance, and darkness.

Try this: Think of one person who seems far from God. Replace judgment with this sentence: “God loved the world, and that includes ____________.”

03

Wednesday

Love Brought Us from Death to Life

We Are Becoming
A person receiving bread, water, and dignified care
Read Ephesians 2:1-10 · NLT ↗
“But God is so rich in mercy, and he loved us so much, that even though we were dead because of our sins, he gave us life.”

The value of a gift becomes clearer when we understand the need of the person receiving it. Bread may seem ordinary after a full meal, but it becomes precious to someone who has not eaten. Water may be easy to overlook beside a kitchen sink, but it becomes life to someone dying of thirst.

Pastor Kennedy brought us to an even deeper need. Scripture does not say we were merely discouraged people who needed a better attitude. Paul says we were dead in our sins. Dead people do not need a little improvement. They need life.

Then come two of the most beautiful words in Scripture: But God. God is rich in mercy. God loved us so much. God united us with Christ and made us alive. Salvation is resurrection before it becomes renovation. We do not clean ourselves up and then ask Jesus to complete the work. Jesus gives life, and then His life begins to remake us.

This protects us from both pride and despair. Pride cannot say, “I rescued myself.” Despair cannot say, “I am beyond His reach.” Grace tells the truth about our need and an even greater truth about our Savior.

Carry itI did not need a boost. Jesus gave me life.
Pray itGod of mercy, breathe Your life into the place where I have stopped hoping. I place ____________ before You.
Practice itDrink a glass of water slowly. With each sip, thank Jesus that His grace meets needs you could never meet for yourself.
Jesus-SightingWhere did hope return to a person or place that seemed closed off?
Going Deeperoptional

Follow the Bible's movement from helplessness to new life.

  • Ezekiel 37:1-14 — God's breath enters a valley where human strength has no answer.
  • John 5:24-26 — Whoever hears Jesus and believes has already crossed from death into life.
  • Titus 3:3-7 — God saves us because of His mercy, washing and renewing us by the Holy Spirit.

Ask the text: Which actions belong to God, and which response is invited from us?

Whole picture: Ephesians 2

Marvel at Thisoptional

Ephesians 2 moves from “you were dead” to “we are God's masterpiece.” Grace does not merely pull us from danger. It gives us a new identity and prepares a life in which love can become visible.

Try this: When an old failure names you, answer with God's present tense: “In Christ, I have been made alive.”

04

Thursday

The Gift Beyond Measure

Formed by God's Word
Jesus near the vast creation He holds together
Read Colossians 1:15-20 · NLT ↗
“Everything was created through him and for him. He existed before anything else, and he holds all creation together.”

Pastor Kennedy used the picture of a small piece of gold beside a massive rock. The rock may be much larger and heavier, yet the gold may be worth far more. Size does not determine intrinsic value.

Then he asked us to consider who Jesus is. Jesus is not merely a wise teacher, a courageous prophet, or a good man who gave us an inspiring example. He is the visible image of the invisible God. Everything was created through Him and for Him. He existed before all things, holds creation together, and stands supreme over the Church.

This is the One who came near. The hands that formed creation accepted nails. The One who sustains every breath gave His breath for us. The source of life entered death and rose as the beginning of a new creation. We could not purchase this gift, imagine a greater gift, or make ourselves worthy of it. God gave us Jesus.

Familiarity can make even treasure seem ordinary. Today, let Scripture restore proportion. Our problems are real, but they are not larger than Christ. Our failures are serious, but they are not stronger than His cross. Our future may be uncertain, but it is not outside the hands that hold all creation together.

Carry itThe One who holds all things is holding me.
Pray itLord Jesus, restore my wonder at who You are. Hold together what feels fragile in ____________.
Practice itStep outside or look through a window. Name one part of creation you can see, then say, “This was made through Jesus and is held by Jesus.”
Jesus-SightingWhat ordinary part of creation helped you remember the greatness and nearness of Christ?
Going Deeperoptional

Listen as several New Testament writers describe the incomparable Son.

  • John 1:1-5, 14-18 — The eternal Word through whom all things were made became human and lived among us.
  • Hebrews 1:1-4 — The Son radiates God's glory and sustains everything by His powerful word.
  • Philippians 2:5-11 — The One who is truly God humbles Himself to save and is exalted by the Father.

Ask the text: What belongs uniquely to Jesus, and what did He choose to do for us?

Whole picture: Colossians 1

Marvel at Thisoptional

Colossians places creation and reconciliation in the same song. The One through whom the universe came into being is the One who makes peace through His blood on the cross.

Try this: Bring one fear under the larger truth: “Jesus, this is real, and You are greater.”

05

Friday

Let the Love Flow Through

Every Becomer Is a Minister · Known by Our Love
A church family making the love of Christ visible through care
Read 1 John 4:11-21 · NLT ↗
“Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other.”

God's love comes to us, but it is not meant to stop with us. John joins two truths we often separate: no one has seen God, and when we love one another, God lives in us and His love is brought to full expression. The invisible God makes His love visible through ordinary people.

That love may look like patience with a story we have heard before. It may be forgiveness that refuses to give hurt the final word. It may be a call to someone lonely, a meal for someone ill, prayer beside a hospital bed, a ride to church, or quiet presence with someone grieving. These actions do not earn God's love. They carry the love we have already received.

This week, Carolyn and I saw God's love reach someone while we served among people experiencing homelessness. We shared Jesus, but only God could open a heart and give new life. When that person trusted Christ, our response was not, “Look what we did.” It was, “Look what God has done.”

Last week Pastor Sammy gave us a towel and three names. This week Pastor Kennedy gives us the reason we can pick up that towel: we love because God loved us first. Ask the Holy Spirit for one name and one faithful way to let received love become visible.

Carry itLove received becomes love revealed.
Pray itHoly Spirit, let the love of Jesus pass through my hands, my words, and my prayers. Show me how to love ____________.
Practice itChoose one visible act of love for the name God brings to mind. If contact is not possible or would not be safe, pray for that person. Either one counts.
Jesus-SightingWhere did the love of the invisible God become visible through a person?
Going Deeperoptional

See how receiving God's love becomes a life of patient, concrete love.

  • John 13:34-35 — Jesus says the family resemblance of His disciples will be their love.
  • 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 — Love takes recognizable shape in patience, kindness, humility, and endurance.
  • James 2:14-17 — Faith responds to a brother or sister's material need with more than kind words.

Ask the text: What would make God's love visible in one relationship today?

Whole picture: 1 John 4:7-21

Marvel at Thisoptional

John says that God's love is “brought to full expression in us.” We do not add what was missing from the cross. We become a living display of the love the cross has already revealed.

Try this: Before one act of care, pray, “Jesus, let this point beyond me to You.”

The Love That Moves

Pastor Kennedy's lesson gives us a simple movement to remember:

You do not have to create this love by force. Begin by receiving. Stay near Jesus. Ask the Holy Spirit to form His patience, mercy, courage, and kindness in you.

Let love become visible by name

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Go Deeper Together

Read 1 John 4:7-21 one more time with a Bible, a piece of paper, or a trusted friend. Circle or notice every word that describes what God does, then every phrase that describes how we respond. Ask: Where do I most need to receive God's love, and where might He make that love visible through me?

You may keep the answer between you and God. This is an invitation, not an assignment.

Final Prayer

Father, do not let us become so familiar with the gospel that we lose our wonder. You loved us before we loved You. You gave Your beloved Son when we could never earn Him. Lord Jesus, You entered our death and gave us Your life. Holy Spirit, make this love more than words we know. Let it become patience, forgiveness, encouragement, prayer, welcome, courage, and practical care. When someone is lonely, hurting, sick, grieving, or far from hope, make us attentive to Your invitation. Keep our hands gentle, our motives humble, and our praise pointed toward You. The gift is Yours, the saving work is Yours, and all the glory is Yours. Amen.

Final Declaration

God loved me first.
God gave me Jesus.
Christ has made me alive.
His love will not stop with me.
All glory belongs to God.
Amen.